Sometimes if a couple consists of two primarily bottoms or tops, they’ll be looking for a guy that brings their missing position to the mix, two bottoms looking for a total top, or two tops looking to skewer a willing bottom. With no notion of the virtue of chastity in effect for men, the only guys who will say no are those who find you repulsive and those who have some notion that they are ONLY looking for a serious relationship and are unwilling to have some fun along the way. Given that the gay community is unencumbered by the sexual morays of the straight world, if you’re a member of a couple looking to play, picking up singles is almost too easy. Unlike in the straight world, there’s no particular uneasiness with the gender of one of the participants, and many couples find that the added attraction of getting double-teamed allows them to land men who wouldn’t likely be interested in them one-on-one.

Whether you’re hooking up with a couple, are a member of a couple, or are a part of an impromptu “ménage à trois” thrown together at a bar or club, it’s one of the easiest hookups to accomplish. All male three-ways are something of a tradition in the gay community.